a little realisation

The ego is two sided, it works in one way perfectly if it has a broad view but if it puts itself at the centre, it runs into difficulty as it has likes and dislikes and uncertainties and distinct views.  It is seeking to find a way of being the focus where the ego which understands itself as a player is simple and doesn't get offended or convinced of its own righteousness.   Meditation on the simplicity of the self helps to define the two-sided ego and gives a bit of perspective on the way it plays.  It also gives the golden key to getting out of situations whereas the aggravated ego gets in the way of simple enjoyment of everyone and their character.