the two becoming one

Visiting meditation daily is getting to know the reality of who you are and of who everyone and everything else is.  You set yourself the goal of making that reality the single reality so when you have to leave the different persons that are the expression of that reality, you can do it without grief to yourself or others.  The key is getting the meditation into the pattern of your life, aiming to make it the most important thing, not just an add-on to enhance your life.  The second person, the running around, driving, thinking, being all sorts of things from childhood to old age then becomes absorbed in contemplating your spiritual being.  It is a high calling.